Tuesday, October 26, 2010

What's right for one person isn't necessarily right for another

The age and type of person to get married to for one person does not apply to every one in a world, community, or family. Just because someone is dating a person who is struggling with a personal issue does not mean that this person should be "thrown out", so to speak, and marriage age varies between people. Everyone has personal problems, and no one is perfect. It's not the age that should determine when a person gets married. There are a million other factors such as love, compatibility, honesty, and the willingness of each person to do their part.


Similarly, just because you are certain religion does NOT mean that you should and want to go to a university affiliated with that religion. Some people are content with their current schooling, and are not so fond of the thought of living in that type of environment. It would make no sense to make the switch, especially when that school doesn't even have courses in one's major. There are some people who are perfectly content where they are.


I am sick of living at home. I have been looking for a stable full- or part-time job since February 2009, when I had mostly recovered from hallux tendon surgery. I apply, apply, apply, apply, apply, apply...yet I never get hired. Never. Apparently, Arizona is ranked #2 in the country for unemployment, but it still makes me feel bad. How can NONE of these people hire me, and then turn around and hire people who I know to be dishonest and slackers on the job? Really?


One more thing. When you are in love with someone, you want to see them and spend time with them (everyday). There's nothing wrong with that and it's not unhealthy. Married people see each other everyday. Does that mean that's unhealthy too? No.

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